What is Sensuality?
Sensuality is a form of self fulfillment to oneself, an expression of love, joy, excitement, tenderness, and sweet pleasure that can’t be described. A blessing that the body gets to lavish in and enjoy. it’s pleasure beyond her wildest of dreams. And it’s a tango the body gets to experience forever.
What am I talking about you ask?
A woman inner knowing of herself. The way she feels when she presents herself to the world, and the way she feels about herself as a whole. I remember being in my early 20s, not knowing anything about sensuality, long before it became popular and was seen more online, the sexy part of a woman was considered taboo in some ways to society. I didn’t know the first thing about feeling comfortable in my body on a deep level, almost like it was foreign to me. I barely understood things in a romantic way towards myself other than sex, so I went on a self-discovery journey through spirituality for four years and I’m hear to tell you all about it and what I’ve learned.
Spirituality and My Body
Spirituality is like falling into an abyss. It’s not knowing what’s going to happen next even though you know you’re being lead to something grand. I started out with changing my wardrobe, growing out my natural hair, figuring out what worked best for me and my complexion, learning to be comfortable with how I looked without makeup, and truly feeling more stable and confident with who I was as a person. As people, we change with every season, and I was finally in mines. I didn’t dress to impress and I didn’t go the extra mild if there was no reason to. I didn’t like the idea of spreading myself thin anymore or trying to be the “go to” for everyone in my life. I learned to go with my own flow and let life come to me aside from living it.
Things I Did That Made Me Feel Sensual
I started learning things that made me feel like I was in my woman bag throughout the day. Reading, bathing in natural soaps and body oils, writing, getting in touch with my emotions on a regular basis, creating a night and day skincare routine for myself filled with things I enjoyed, a positive affirmation book, and clothes that made my body melt and feel wonderful against my skin. It all allowed me to embrace who I was, who I am and feel confident in my skin. I didn’t care what anyone thought about me or how I might be perceived, I began to truly enjoy my own essence.
But aside from material things, what helped me tap into my sensuality was how I felt about myself internally. Why should I be ashamed to embrace my “womanly wild”or love how I look when clothes are not necessarily on regardless of size or shape? Why should I be afraid to feel sexy everywhere I go or have to dim my light to suit others? I shouldn’t and I learned not to. A sensual woman is woman that’s comfortable with who she is as a whole, a woman who embraces all her senses in a sexual or non-sexual way, and caters to herself and her needs. It’s about truly learning to love yourself for who you are and embracing all the attributes that accompany that.
Sensual Woman
For me, being a sensual woman wasn’t something I did, it became apart of who I am. You don’t just wake up one morning and decide “today I’m going to be sensual woman,” you grow into it a little bit at the time. You learn to take your time with yourself because as days and week progress you still are always constantly changing, evolving, and growing. Brace yourself, because your on a journey of self-love, self-fulfillment, and self-discovery as a woman.
Have fun being a sensual woman!
Kaymarie 